Unapologetic U

Transformative Community is CALLING!

UNAPOLOGETIC U is an embodied learning, practice, and belonging community for women & queers who are ready to stop abandoning themselves in order to belong.

It was born from the #1 Death Bed Regret: "I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me." That is the very heart of why I do the sacred work that I do.

Through shadow work, nervous system healing, ecstatic embodiment, archetypal exploration, ritual, movement, sacred dialogue, and deep emotional truth-telling, participants are guided through the 13 Pillars of the Sacred Art of Sparkling SHAMELESSLY & the 7 Stage Spiral of Wild Becoming — a journey of remembering who they are beneath conditioning, shame, perfectionism, patriarchy, people-pleasing, and performance-based worth.

This is not about becoming a “better” version of yourself.
It is about reclaiming the parts of yourself that were exiled in order to survive.

UNAPOLOGETIC U invites women & queers into a deeper relationship with their bodies, instincts, emotions, eros, voice, truth, and sacred humanity so they can live, lead, love, create, and take up space from a place of embodied sovereignty rather than self-abandonment.

At its core, UNAPOLOGETIC U is a return: to the body as oracle, to the soul as guide, and to the radical remembering that you were never meant to earn your worth through shrinking, silencing, or betraying yourself. This is how we stay close to what is most sacred and the he(art) of what matters most

This is a space of permission & liberation, of full freedom of expression, of re-wilding and holy homecoming so you can just be YOU. 


Our Story

for THE Ones WHO CAN NO LONGER PRETEND

There comes a moment when the old life stops working.

The roles that once fit begin to suffocate. The smile becomes heavy. The body gets louder. The nervous system refuses what the mind still tries to justify.

You call it confusion. You call it burnout. You call it overwhelm. You call it perimenopause. You call it being too sensitive. But deeper down, you know:

something sacred is trying to break free.

You were taught to be good before true.
Pleasant before powerful.
Chosen before free.
Useful before alive.

You learned to override your body.
Mute your rage.
Shrink your brilliance.
Explain your instincts.
Abandon yourself to belong.

And now your system is done cooperating. F*CK YES, FINALLY. Because this is not your breakdown. This is the end of self-betrayal & ABANDONING YOUR TRUTH.

This is the return of your life-force. The resurrection of desire. The awakening of embodied power. The moment your truth becomes more important than approval.
You do not need another strategy to become acceptable. You need a sanctuary to become undeniable.

Unapologetic U is for the ONES who ARE ready to:

  • trust your body as the oracle

  • transmute rage into clarity

  • reclaim pleasure, voice, and vitality

  • build true wealth & reciprocity without self-erasure

  • lead without performing or masking

  • be witnessed in your wild becoming

  • stop apologizing for your radiance

  • be f*cking MAGNETIC in your original essence!

This is not a course. It is a living permission field of remembrance.


A mystery school for the ones who know they are here for more.
A sanctuary for truth.
A forge for leadership.
A kinship of embodied women & queers refusing to go back asleep.

If your body is saying yes, listen.

If you feel the ache, you are already being called.

If the old life no longer fits— Come HOME.

We’ll be waiting with open arms to embrace you!

Come feel valued, validated, deeply accepted & held in the brilliant truth & radiance of who you truly are... 

Within this sacred space, you'll find a kaleidoscope of personality & pizzazz, tools & transformation, & fierce support & SOULSPARKLE to help you live into your fullest capacities.

But most of all, you'll find a sense of beloved community & lasting connection. This is a fierce container of soul growth, deep healing, sacred play & alchemical transformation where you can call ALL parts of yourself back HOME to wholeness.

This is our Altar of ALIVENESS

Our Temple of Human Potential.

Our Laboratory of Authentic Soul Expression.

Our Incubator to live into our Divine Legacy

Our Personal & deeply Sacred Sanctuary.

Our Virtual Round Table & Wisdom Council.

Our Spark to Dream & Co-create the New World into Being

Our Well of Super-powered Soul Sustenance & Deep Nourishment

Our Sacred Space of HOMECOMING to our bodies, our truth, our power & our sovereignty. 

Our messy, gorgeous home to come as we are, again and again and again.

Gathering in sacred circle is a healing balm for the soul, especially in turbulent times.

Belonging, community care & nurturance culture are essential now as we dream and co-create the new earth TOGETHER. As STARkin, we come together in sacred circle to be deeply nourished, sustained and resourced for the (r)evolutionary journey. We are holding space for each other to RISE as ecstatic embodied leaders in the world for the good of all.

What you’ll receive

Along with the secret Forbidden Feminine Frequency Podcast, our epic resource library, our online home for deep nourishment, a copy of Lainie Love’s Sacred (R)evolution oracle deck mailed to you and a pre-order copy of her new oracle deck in creation: BORN FOR THIS: The Sacred Opus Oracle, you’ll also receive:

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MONTHLY Live Cosmic Ceremonies on zoom

Join us live on Zoom every month for soulful Cosmic Ceremonies with ritual, astrology, shamanic healing, shadow work, embodiment, and deep inner transformation. Align with the lunar cycle, set powerful intentions, and reconnect with your truest self. The timing each month will be different depending on what cosmic events are happening, eclipse portals & turnings of the wheel of the year. All ceremonies are recorded.

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monthly live Sacred SweaT conscious dance & liberation

Sacred Sweat™ is a transformational conscious dance experience where we reclaim our life-force through the medicine of movement. Together, we sweat out the Patriarchal S.H.A.M.E. Spell, return home to our bodies, and remember the wild, radiant, unapologetic freedom that has been within us all along. Come as you are. Dance your truth. Leave more alive than when you arrived. All are recorded.

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Intimate raw audios & STARkin community forum

This is more than a forum or chat —it's a gathering place. Join a private community of kindred spirits committed to living with greater courage, authenticity, and embodiment. Share your reflections, celebrate your breakthroughs, receive support, and cultivate meaningful connections along the journey. Plus, enjoy intimate, unfiltered audio reflections recorded straight from the heart of the creative process.

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Immediate access to 2 of our most Foundational trainings

Receive immediate access to two of our most popular transformational trainings & get our Transformational Moon Tracking Journal. Astrology Unveiled, a collaborative journey into the wisdom of the cosmos, and The Great Yoni Awakening Initiation, a sacred reclamation of feminine power and pleasure. The journal helps you track the moon cycles, and daily ecstatic embodiment, so you can stay focused on what matters most.

We're on a MISSION!

We’re on a mission to free human Spirits to Sparkle SHAMELESSLY and step into their full S.T.A.R. Power— Sovereign.Truthful.Aligned.Rewilded.

Sparkling SHAMELESSLY at its core is about coming wildly & unapologetically ALIVE. When we grow our capacity to channel these potent life giving energies towards co-creating the world we want to see, we become UNSTOPPABLE.

This powerful yearlong mentoring container will support you to raise your vibration, attune to your authentic essence, ignite your wild aliveness and polish your inner Diamond Core so you can Sparkle SHAMELESSLY & consistently without burning out amidst the chaos of our world.  

This is how we Sparkle SHAMELESSLY & sustainably without burning out!